Thursday, May 23, 2013

Odilia - aka the most awesomest kitten in the world..


recycled pict, sorry.. 
So last night when I went down to feed her, I was late and tired and I didn't have a heck of a lot of energy left for her.  I ended up laying belly down on the ground, which she really likes.  She crawls up into my arms and lays on her back and plays with my hair, and swats at my chin. It really is incredibly sweet.  I was attempting to rest my head on the bear chair, and she ended up in the crook of the bear's foot, getting gobs of kisses and love.

At one point she decided to crawl on top of my back. I LOVE when my cats do this, and I like when kittens do it. Kittens do not give as good of a 'back massage' because they are so darn little, but having her run around on my back did feel good. After a few minutes of it, I was starting to nod off and I knew I had better make it up the stairs before I fell asleep right then and there, so I attempted to get her off my back.  She was having nothing to do with that as she was having fun.  After a few feeble attempts, I decided to slowly roll over, figuring she would jump off eventually.. nope, not Odilia.. she decided to follow the movement and moved up to my side, then over to my front as I rolled over.

I laughed so hard at her clever attempt to keep me there.. that she did get a few more minutes of love and attention before I called it a night.

She almost got some friends yesterday.  I got a flurry of emails about one set of kittens and then another. By the time I got to the shelter all of them had been promised to other foster homes.  As much as I would like to bring a friend home for her, I also worry about it.  When she met Triscuit it went well enough, but Odilia couldn't read the signals that Triscuit was throwing off to play and it was just confusing for her.  They stayed on their own sides of the hotel room when ever they were in it - which I have to say was pretty amazing.  I am also a little fearful in that young orphans would not have been tested yet for Felv and there is always a risk when you mix litters of kittens that there is something being harbored that could be passed.  I'm trying to decide if the benefit of a friend or two will outweigh the risks.  I wasn't worried about her going to "R's" house since she had the mother cat who could be tested, and Triscuit was old enough as well.  So I figured I'd play this one by ear. If it happens I'm offered and no one else swoops in to take, she'll get a friend.  If not, she'll be an only..

Considering that she is *at least* seven weeks old (a guess of three at the time and I've had her for a month) but more likely 9 or 10, and she only weighs 1lb 3 oz.. I'm guessing I'm going to have her for a while.. Even if she did get friends, they would soon outgrow her..

BlogPaws 2013


So, traveling really wears me out.  Hence the delay in this post. Traveling with a kitten.. even more so! :)

Despite the fact that Odilia was better then I could have DREAMED as a traveling companion, I was still constantly worrying about her.  Worried if she was comfy, worried if she needed a litter box, worried if she was hungry, etc.

Although if you were to ask me if I knew then what I know now would I have brought her, I believe my answer would have been yes.  Mostly because she broke down doors I might have been reluctant to even knock on.  I mean when you see people who run blogs you are so enamored with, you don't want to sound all stalkerish; but when they come running up to you... ;)

So, I've given you bits and bites of my trip in the running posts, but I think I'll stick it all in one place.  I set off on Tuesday as I was given an invitation to hang out at Robin's (aka coveredincathair.com) and get a nice early start on Wednesday.  We had a very nice visit, I went to a hotel for the night, and we got on the road at a good time.  Odilia slept a good chunk of the way.  Originally she was sitting up in the front seat with me and she slept then too, but when ever I would make a stray comment it would wake her up and she would mew for attention.  Once she was in the back seat she pretty much gave up trying and went to sleep.

Robin is a wonderful traveling companion.  If you ever get the chance I say go for it!!

Wednesday night I stayed in a different hotel.  I couldn't get the Sheraton to give me the discounted rate for the night before the conference, and my husband had "points" he could turn in for a room for me, so I spent the night elsewhere.  LOVED it.  it had a salt water pool that was the perfect temperature.  I ended up going swimming twice.  It was lovely and made me happy.



Thursday the conference started officially.  Originally it wasn't supposed to start until Thursday night, but they decided at what seemed like the last minute to throw some sessions on the schedule.    Only issue with that was that they started before the official check in time of the hotel.  So what were those who came in that day supposed to do? Take their stuff to the session??  It was more disconcerting for me with a kitten.  I asked the staff a the hotel when we arrived on Wednesday, and I was told if there was a room I could check in early.  I was lucky as when we arrived I was able to get in.

I was VERY disappointed in the lack of communication. We were given free wifi while we were there, but no one gave us a log on.  It was on a piece of paper, but no one pointed it out nor was it given out with any of our paperwork. You either had to find it on your own or ask.  As for the hotel itself they had what appeared to be an 'old' and a 'new' section.  I was on floor three, and was not directed properly, so I ended up going to the elevators (makes sense right?) and there was no floor three button.  So I went and asked, and was sent off to a different hallway where there were three levels and the lobby level was level two.  There was an "elevator" sign, but as I walked down the hall I ran into rooms and I was confused as to where the elevator was.  I finally had to ask an employee who was cleaning a room.  Unfortunately she was not very clear in her accent, but I got the gist that the elevator was in the middle of the floor - aka as far away from the lobby as possible.  I was very upset that the staff at check in didn't bother to explain this to me.  I FINALLY got to my room and settled Odilia in and went to check in with blogpaws.  I got my name badge and my 'goodie bag' and headed back to my room to figure out what I wanted to do next. (link to PDF of the schedule)

Btw, this wasn't my only issue with the hotel.  All access to outside areas were locked.  The outdoor pool was closed and locked so you couldn't sit out on the chairs.  There was an atrium near the dining area and there were chairs and a walkway around it and that too was locked and we weren't able to get there.  There was a small grassy area in the front of the building but that was used for the dog park.  Coming from Maine where it is still in the 50s, I would have REALLY liked to sit out in the sun and the warmth.. They also blocked off the most obvious entrance to the pool, so finding a way in wasn't as easy.. not to mention there was no locker room so if you did want to go swimming you had to walk through the hotel in your suit and your wet suit when you are done.  I wasn't about to do that...

So anyway, my intention was to go to Robin's session talking about Kitties for Kids and then go to "bloggers vs veterinarians"  but I got to the first but not the second.  I wanted to check in again on Odilia.  Robin's session was really good, but it turns out that bloggers vs veterinarians was not really as it was advertised but was more of a plug for the AAHA... so I am glad that I didn't get to it.

Dinner was not provided, and I ended up going out to dinner with the "cat ladies" which was a lot of fun.  I sat next to Margaret Gates from feline-nutrition.org  and Tamar from I Have Cat, and yes I was thrilled.

The next morning the program I had said there was 'meditation' before breakfast.  I thought that would be interesting, so I brought Odilia with me and we were early. As I sat in the hall waiting for it to start, someone taped a sign to the door saying yoga would be somewhere else.  :(  I wasn't dressed for yoga, nor am I good enough to attempt to do it in public and I had wanted meditation... I just took her to breakfast instead.  The dining room was quiet to start out and she did very well. As time went on it got louder and louder, and Odilia still didn't seem to care.  She was happy to sit there and be played with.  After a while she got a whiff of my eggs and she climbed up on the table and started eating them

Since Odilia had been out of the room for a while I returned her (along with the raw food Margaret brought for her) and then went off to the building Facebook fans session.  That was pretty disappointing.  He talked more of what to do ON Facebook and not how to build fans.  His philosophy seemed to be that if you build it they will come.  Yeah, well I built my blog 10 years ago and I do not want to discount my awesome readers, I do not have hoards.. so that was of little help.  The next session  I was thinking of going to was SEO, but there was an SEO class after lunch as well so I figured I'd take some time and go through the booths set up in the exhibit hall and attempt to network.

I have to say as a cat blogger the representation of cat products was sorely lacking.  Not one cat toy manufacturer was there.  There was one company who did dog toys who had one cat toy on their table, but it wasn't as much a toy as a treat dispenser.. Toys are vital to a cat's health and well being.  As hunters they need to "hunt".  There were a few decent products in the "Cat Lounge" but there was only one person in there talking about his product, so it wasn't like it was all that friendly to people.  In the main exhibit lounge there were people giving away product or samples, or brochures, in the cat lounge there was just stuff on a table.

Lunch was provided.  It was mediocre as was all the food provided.  I am a little surprised that such an upscale hotel would put out so-so food. It was OK, but I was expecting more.

I then went to an SEO class.  I have read several websites on SEO (aka Search Engine Optimization) and have tried to implement it in my blog, but I wanted to hear someone talk about it.  Pam Foster did a wonderful job explaining it in plain English and forgoing all of the jargon you see on SEO sites.

I then went to "Make your Blog Picture Purrfect" with Ali Peterson.  The description of the session was to learn about editing, watermarking, etc.  The session was basically how to use your DSLR in manual mode. Don't get me wrong, that would have been an awesome class if I had had my DSLR with me and hadn't had a kitten with me.  I was disappointed so I used Odilia as an excuse and left.

Once again dinner was not provided, so I ended up going out with different cat ladies to a Japanese Steak House.. You know the one, where they cook your food in front of you, set off big flames, etc.  It was fun.  I got to chat with Janiss from Sparkle the Designer Cat.  It was a little hard because of the noise.  I also got to meet Stephanie from Snotface Ferret  

The next day I wasn't interested in any of the first sessions, so I went to the so so breakfast and then I needed to run out to pick something up.  I was a little late getting back and went to the "all you need to know about copyright" which was fairly interesting, especially considering what I do for work (working for a stock image agency)

Odilia and I went to lunch, and then I went to the twitter session, which was OK.  I didn't get a handout, and I didn't bring anything to take notes on because I had Odilia, so I missed out on the few urls I would have liked to remember.. but that one is sorta on me.  I then went to the No Kill 2020.. that was a COMPLETE waste of my time.  it felt like the first 10 minutes were simply videos of Vinny the Pug.  I don't want to be insensitive because Allen Kimble just lost Vinnie, but it was back on 3/15 so if he had a presentation that depended on Vinnie being there it would seem to me that he would have had time to adjust his presentation.. After the videos he talked about all the 'high end' merchandise he was going to be selling to raise money for rescue.. This is not "no kill".. this is fundraising or merchandising.. so I got up and left. I was not alone in this one.

I was left feeling more then a little disappointed with "BlogPaws" in general.  I got a goodie bag when I checked in and I was asked if I were cat or dog or cat and dog, and I said cat.  I got a big over-sized stuffed bag full of goodies 90% I could not use as they were dog items.  I didn't want to complain - I mean it was free - but I went to ask if maybe I got the wrong bag and was told no, there was little cat swag.  All I could think of was why?  I can't imagine that companies who make cat products wouldn't be thrilled to meet cat bloggers face to face and get their products in our hands.. so all I can fathom is they didn't ask  The "Cat Lounge" was OK, but also disappointing in that no one was in there talking about things.  I was unhappy that there were no cat toys at all (save for one thing that was on the raffle table) and said so on Facebook and twitter.  This got an immediate response from TPTB and I was told there would be "More stuff being delivered to the cat lounge tomorrow!"  well there was a basket with some small stuffie toys and a vase with a few wand toys, but no sign that said "take one" so I had no idea they were to be given out (because again, no one was in there directing people) so I had no idea they were for us until the basket was nearly empty.  I was able to snag a small monkey for Odilia to chew on.

I also heard that we would be able to view all of the sessions as they were recorded, but I have yet to hear how we can do that.

And then there was those sessions.. I was not the only one who went to sessions that were disappointing.  To me - an outsider who showed up for the first time - it seemed to me that they were struggling to find speakers for all of the sessions.  Again, as an outsider it seems to me that it would have been a far better conference if they had scheduled fewer speakers that would speak slightly longer - because one thing a lot of people said the sessions they liked could have gone on for another hour - and not tried to fill 16 different sessions a day.

Another complaint I had was there was not nearly enough time to 'network' with other bloggers. There was an hour or so at breakfast and two hours with in the day for lunch and the exhibit hall, which wasn't nearly enough time. If dinner had also been provided, it would have given us more time with each other, but because it wasn't, so most people left the hotel in search of good food.

Some of the rumblings appear to have been heard with in TPTB, and I have heard they were asking for suggestions how to make the 'cat area' better.  While I am so glad and happy about that, I am also a little amazed that they need suggestions.  How hard can it be to understand what cats and cat people need.  Does no one with in the "BlogPaws Team" have a cat?  Even if they don't own one, can't they imagine what a cat might need?  Or spend 2 minutes in the pet store and see what items are there and contact those companies?  How could they not know how many cat bloggers were showing up at their event so when they contact companies they could say "look, we have x# of cat bloggers showing up, don't you want to be a part of this?"

Cats are so overlooked in general.  In many communities they are still considered disposable pets.  I was disappointed that they were treated as they were here as well.

As much as enjoyed meeting and hanging out with Lisa and Amy and Robin and Angie and Debbie and Tamar and Deb and Jeanne and JaneA and Dorian and Janiss and Stephanie and Ingrid and Teri and Bernadette and the staff of Cattywumpuscats and Tex Cat, I do not think I will be attending BlogPaws2014 in Nevada with out a sponsor to take care of the financial aspects of it for me.  I hate flying, and the only thing I hate more then flying is paying to be treated that badly.  If it were local, or even in Boston or New York, I wouldn't hesitate to give it another go. The chance to spend some time with other cat bloggers, who have that same kind of crazy that I am - that you are - is so worth it. That moment you realize you really are not alone is priceless.

I do have photos.. I will share them tomorrow.. as well as all of the incidents of Odilia on the web that I can find.  She really was one popular little lady.

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Odilia's Story



Odilia was turned into the shelter back in April and I brought her home to foster on the 23rd.

At the time it was thought she was three weeks old due to her size, but the more time I spent with her the less likely I thought that was possible.  She had very good coordination, and a peek at the teeth told me more on the five or six week range since she had her back molars in.

Odilia when I first took her in
Sadly there is often very little information in rescue.  I like to ask. The shelter will tell me what information they have, but you do have to realize that all too often people are unwilling or unable to tell us the truth of their history.  As I understand it she was born with another kitten who passed away.  The owner felt that the mother kitty was unable to care for the kitten so she was turned in.    I am not quite sure how much of this is true since she did not have the feel of a failure to thrive kitten since she was round in all the right places.  But I would rather she be in the system than left with someone who felt uncomfortable to take care of her.


Odilia is the first blind kitten I have ever fostered.  I have been fostering kittens since 2002 so I have a good handle on how to help a neonatal kitten become a well adjusted and social kitten that is easily adopted.  But with Odilia I had different challenges.  I kept her confined for the first week or so, close to bedding, food and litter it was hard for her to not be able to find what she needed.  As time progressed I decided to introduce her into a larger area.  I would call her and walk away and have her follow me to each corner of the room to help her learn how large of an area she had as well as navigate to those things she would find important: food, litter and bedding.  Because I was over protective of her, I did this over the course of a couple of days, returning her to the cage I was keeping her in at this point when I wasn't able to watch her directly.  After just a few times she had the room down pat, and she showed me that she was just fine.

It took a while longer for her to drink water, but she came to that on her own.  She also learned to track belled toys and now plays with them on her own as well.  When you watch her play and navigate her environment you would barely know she is blind.  Occasionally she will run and will run headlong into things, but occasionally fully sighted kittens will do that as well.


Her prognosis is very good at this point.  I was worried originally due to the death of her sibling, but she is eating and playing and active and in very good health.  All the stress of going to BlogPaws didn't even faze her.

She does have a few challenges.  First she has a pretty strong under bite and doesn't have the jaw strength that kittens her size usually have.  I am not sure what that means for her, but I do know she refuses to eat dry food (not that I mind that one bit). The second is she is very very small for her age.  She weighed out at 1lb 3oz yesterday.  This is the general size of a four week old kitten.  Chronologically she is probably nine if not ten weeks. She also acts much younger then her age, which is good because it is more in line with her physical size.

I am fortunate to be fostering for a shelter who is willing and able to take on challenging cases.  Because of all of the effort they have put in to improving the conditions for the animals in their care, they have near no-kill stats.  They are often importing dogs and sometimes cats from shelters in parts of the country that have an over abundance.  They even took in some kitties from across the country when their owners needed to find them a new home and no one locally would help them out.  Because of all the good work they do they have a wonderful reputation with in the community.  I have no doubt if that Odilia, if she isn't able to charm someone online to adopt her, will find a home and probably pretty quickly.  For the most part she could probably fit into any home pretty easily, as long as the owners were willing to be patient and work with her and show her around.

The Blind Cat Rescue webpage has a great page about living with a blind kitty.  It just enforces what I have learned caring for her..

I am often asked if I am going to keep Odilia.  While I would love to, I think she is an amazing kitty and I have no doubt she could easily become an internet sensation, I have to also keep in mind the welfare of the cats I already own.  We have a wonderful balance with The Crew and I fear adding to it and causing disharmony.  So I will let her move on and make someone else very happy.. which will also open up another opportunity to help more kittens..

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

1200 miles


to be honest, I am still quite worn out from the trip.  I still haven't unpacked, I was nearly falling asleep last night at 6:30.. so info about BlogPaws is still going to have to wait.. sorry.

but the trip home.. I don't need to upload a lot of images for that or find links, so you get that story now :)

I set my trip odometer before I left the house.  When I got home I had nearly 1200 miles on my car.

When traveling with someone, you always have to make some sacrifices, but I was very lucky with Robin.  She understood my need to get going early.  We packed my car up with in an inch of its life and headed out a little later then I would have liked, but a little earlier then my "oh we really should have left by now!!" time limit.

We talked most of the way.  I will tell you that Robin has had one amazingly full life so far.  She has some wonderful stories to tell, and I really enjoyed traveling with her.

As a bonus, so did Odilia...

pict ©Robin Anderson

as someone who is afraid of heights, I have to say I am NOT a fan of the Delaware Memorial Bridge especially in the rain.. but I had  a good companion who kept me distracted, I kept my head down, and went slow..   Mentally I know there is nothing to worry about, but some how my stomach and throat are totally disconnected with that, and the second I see how high up I am they simply panic.

The trip to CT to drop Robin off was pretty uneventful.  There was some concern about going through or near NYC due to the train derailment, but with the help of Robin's cell phone and a call to Sam we got through it with minimal waits in traffic.

I stopped at Robin's for a rest stop, and I got to pat The Dood, which was nice.  As much as I love kittens, they simply do not compare to the joy of patting a big ol cat.

I did not hang out long, as I really wanted to get home before the sun set.  It was still drizzling and as little sleep as I got through the past few days I did not want to get caught in the rain in the dark.  I drove for a while then stopped and filled up the car, got a Subway sub and a bottle of Mountain Dew.

I have not had a MtnDew since they changed the name of it from Moutain to Mtn.. I used to have a huge addiction to it, drinking a six pack a day (if not more) due to the fact that I had to get up way too early and count money...I cut out all soda from my diet years ago.  I occasionally drink a soda that is made of sugar only (not HFCS) but it is rare.. but I wanted the caffeine and I don't drink coffee.  I have to tell you it felt like every cell in my body responded on the very first sip. it was a little disconcerting..

Still trekking along nicely, with Odilia sleeping in the back not giving one care that we are moving, I made a few merges as one road turned into another, when I made one specific merge.

This time I was 75% in front of the car I was trying to merge into, but he was not backing off.  I was uncomfortable stepping on the gas and getting in front of him, so I stepped on the break and let him go past.  As I finally merged, I looked to the left to make sure I was OK with the car that was there, then glanced behind me to see where those cars were and as I looked forward, I saw the car that had been in my way previously heading at a 135 degree angle  from the 'slow' lane that we were originally in... aka he was heading for the median.  It took me half a beat wondering what on earth he was doing when he impacted the guard rail.  the hit was shocking to my system, and my foot was off the gas and slowing me down by lightly breaking before I even realized what I was doing.  He hit the rail (which was post and wire) and bounced off it a bit like a bumper car.  he ended up damaging the whole side of his car, nearly ripping his rear view mirror off, and at least his front tire was flat.

the guy next to me had also slowed down, so the crippled car had room to limp off to the break down lane, which is good because that was where it was going regardless of what we were both doing.  I was never more thankful that I leave so much room in front of me and the next car that I get cut off all the time.  If I hadn't, or if my foot hadn't moved and started slowing me down, I am certain he would have taken my car out as well and Odilia and I would have been a world of trouble.

But we were fine, and the rest of the trip went off with out incident.

I finished the book I was listening to while I was in New Hampshire. Knowing the Pascataqua River Bridge was coming up, I turned on the Match Box 20 album I have been listening to "North" and as I came upon this..


This was playing..




To say I was overjoyed was an understatement.  It was still light, the rain had stopped.. I was nearly home.. (Just an aside, this video is special to me.  I met my husband on a carousel)

When I got off the turnpike, I found it near impossible not to speed.  Not because I had just spent the last 11+ hours going 65+ miles an hour, but because I simply wanted to be home..

I was so happy to be home.. The Crew was happy to see me, but then they remembered they were ticked at me for leaving and I got the cold shoulder for a while.  Muffin took nearly two and a half hours before she decided that I MUST make up for lost time and kisses not given.

I did make it in to work the next day..

btw, since Odilia was such a big hit at BlogPaws, and had her picture taken by seemingly everyone, I know her image must be on blogs.. If you happen to stumble upon any, would you mind sharing URLs with me?

Monday, May 20, 2013

A Matter of Trust


In case you feel like listening to it

So I have been thinking a lot lately about trust.  It is an integral part of what I do with kittens, engendering trust.  I spend a good deal of time getting kittens to trust me, trust their environment, and trust in strangers.It is interesting working with Odilia, because I have to consider if what I do normally actually works with those that can not see me.

I do spend time thinking of new ways to help build trust - yes, I know I'm a little odd and I am OK with that - but as a result I often think of how odd our world is.  We go through life trusting a great deal and often taking that for granted.

We trust that other people want to drive carefully and not hit us.  We trust that most people aren't going to  break into our house.  Yes, we lock our doors and we keep an eye out when we are in strange places, but we do go out, and we do not live in dungeons.

We know full well that people could do these things, but for the most part, we do not expect it because we trust..

We also trust in the corporations that make the products we use.  We trust they will make a safe and effective product.  We trust they will make foods that are healthy and good for us. We trust pet food companies to make foods that will keep our pets healthy.

If we trust but verify with our home and our car, why do we not with foods?  Well food and nutrition is much more complicated.  right?? if so, how are we still here on earth?  I mean before all this "science" we some how figured out how to feed ourselves.  So why do we not trust ourselves any more?  Why have we handed over this trust?  The more I learn about food and nutrition not only for myself but for my cats, the more I am shocked at what corporations have been able to get away with.

And now I have just found out I had my trust has been violated by a corporation in a very specific way.  I am so very upset about it.

Remember my trip to Kansas recently?  Well during that trip one of the women left early.  We were given the impression that she was not feeling well.  Well when I saw her at BlogPaws, she told a different story. She told us there were bedbugs in her hotel room and she was bitten.  I have to say it is very possible that she was making it up, but I trust that she wasn't.

I was less then thrilled at how she said she was treated.  I would have thought the hotel would have bent over backwards to make this right.  I do not blame the hotel in the least for having bedbugs, but how they deal with it makes all the difference in the world in how I feel about the situation.  And beyond how she was treated, I am quite bothered by the fact that they didn't tell those of us staying at the hotel.

I mean wouldn't you have wanted to know they were in the building so you could take extra precautions to ensure they did not enter your home???  I know I do.  I believe the responsible thing would be to take the possible hit on the chin and tell us all but they chose not to.

To make matters worse, neither did Hills.  They knew and they also did not tell us.

Bedbugs are not easy to get rid of, and to allow us to blindly go on not knowing.. to put us at risk like that..

I didn't like the way Hills did business before this.  I seriously do not like them now.
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